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Saturday, June 14, 2008 disappointment........you cry out complaining that people do not dote on you. neither do they care or respect you. but you do think your actions are worth the respect of others? do you think your actions can be mildly considered as the act of a mature 17 year old? let me question you then.... by disappearing for 2 days, just to get away with going over to Penang with YOUR family, and missing the day to go pay respects to YOUR mother, a justifiable mature gesture? by allowing the GRANDMOTHER who dotes on you most, and whom you said you DOTE on MOST, worry about you like crazy, a considerably respectable gesture? by blaming your dad for not paying attention to you, and still pull his fiancee into the picture as an excuse for your immaturity, a logical act for your so-called "grown-up" gesture? by saying that my mom and I are the only 2 people you heed advices and listen to the most, but still after times of warning and talks you still refuse to listen to us, an act of respect? many times people around you talk and care about you, but for these care and concern, you put them off as "another annoying session of lecture". many times you made mistakes and people corrected and scolded you for the mistake you made, you once again put these scoldings off by thinking, "I did NOT do anything wrong, and they're scolding me yet again..." I told you before, there's only so much I can take from you.. especially when it involves your mother. I absolutely DO NOT mind if you do not want to go Penang with us. Fine... But I ABSOLUTELY mind if you DO NOT go pay respects to YOUR VERY OWN MOTHER, even after constant reminders by your dad. learn to respect others before you complain others don't respect you. how much respect do you think you've gained so far with your actions? learn to love your family before you whine that they don't seem to love you. at the end of the day, it's your family who will still stand by your side. how much they did for you, won't be able to be repaid with your entire life. friends come and go. how many friends have you lost while growing up? I'm disappointed.... and I know you know... my mom and I spoke up for you.. we tried to help you as much as we could.. but no....... YOU chose to be irresponsible by backing out last minute, causing TONS of trouble for my mom, your dad and uncle.. YOU chose to be disrespectful by listening to your father and disappear even when your father told you that you MUST go pay respects to your mom that day.. YOU chose to ignore the consequences.. now you face the consequences.. DO NOT blame us for being mean, YOU made us this way.. how hard is it to just lead a peaceful life and listening to the elders around you? are your friends the ones who brought you up? are your friends the ones who gave you money every time you step out of that door? are your friends the ones who allowed you shelter and clothes to wear? I sincerely thought you grew up to be a little more responsible.. but no.... the feeling you're giving me is such that you're going from bad to worse.. even though I don't say much, there are a lot of things that I know of.. I don't give up on you.. because you're my cousin.. my younger brother.. why don't you realise blood is thicker than water? |
