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Wednesday, April 20, 2005 it's totally for "her"You should realise by now, that everything needs 2 hands to clap.. i'm not siding Aaron in any way, neither am i siding Jay in any way too.. Why? Cause both of them are in the wrong.. And if you say that i'm listening to one side of the story only, may i ask.. Do you know wat exactly happened? I believe that there's witnesses.. do i have to ask my cousin to verify? or mayb those who are sitting around the both of them? i'm not being bias here.. but i've gotta say this, you cant side your cousin because he's your cousin.. Celine cant side her brother, because he's her brother.. Just like in the court.. The judge and the jury gotta be impartial.. They look at wat's happening, and weigh it.. If they are bias, how else would the laws work? If you are going to help Jay, because he's your cousin, you're totally wrong.. If oneday he gets bold and steals stuff, are you going to side him too? Jus because he's your cousin? If my brother fought with someone in school, and he's in the wrong, i will scold him.. i'm not saying that we should scold him right in front of everybody.. but at least talk to the both of the them, and ask wat exactly happened.. then ask him to apologise and patch things up with the other party.. there's always a rainbow after the rain.. Once they patch things up, it's ok already.. i will not side my brothe rif he's in the wrong.. and i will not scold the other party because i saw wat the other party did to my brother at THAT point of time.. You gotta see the whole picture before you conclude something.. Jumping into the conclusion is just WRONG! You should know the root cause before you say anything..seriously.. i hate to say this, but i'm gonna say this.. Firstly, If you are in a rush to somewhere with somebody, you can always tell mi.. i'll let you go.. i'm not that unreasonable am i? Secondly, by saying that "even if it's my cousin's fault, i cannot also cannot do anything right?" is just an excuse.. you can always do something about it.. like i said, know the root cause before you determine who's in the wrong.. Thirdly, did you exactly saw wat happened between the both of them? did you actually saw Aaron scratching Jay's neck? Even if he did, who started everything again? Jay or Aaron? Lastly, if you wanna just shoot your mouth off like that by saying " then? then? then? then? then? " then i can tell you, i'm really mad at you.. seriously i am.. cause i think, you were already at fault by saying that.. and at that point in time when i'm talking to you, were you trying to push the blame to Aaron? you may say no, but let mi tell you, the whole group of us actually feel so.. honestly.. i'm only being honest here.. and also, by saying that you hate the girl you are right now, and not doing anything to it, it doesnt help.. you may have tried.. but did you try hard enough? And by saying, "Tried being threaten by ur parents everyday?", "Tried living a life without a father for 10 freakin years?", "Tried being used and dump?", "Tried living alone without a word of care & concern?" is not going to help you in any way.. it cant be an excuse for you to be like that.. i know wat happened that made you change.. but i can tell you, if you continue this way, i'm seriously concerned that how will others look at you when you leave this school and to the society.. have you every thought of how others will look at you? About you saying, "Think I like speakin to others in a rude way? It's already beyond my control...", do you think it's beyond your control? i think not.. it's just that you;re not trying hard enough.. not hard enough for you to change.. not enough determination to make you change.. I can truly tell you that everything was jus an excuse.. it may be the truth, but it is not right.. it is not even valid.. neither is it logical.. if you have the determination and you truly, sincerely tried hard enough, i can tell you, by now, people would have seen changes in you.. if you need help, our school's counsellor is there for you.. i believe they are willing to help.. and they are definitely able to keep secrets.. if you dun feel comfortable with them, because you've spoke to them before, the centre at my opposite block, is there.. there's counsellors.. if you need help, jus approach people.. people who are able to help.. i'm not hating you, neither am i against you or wat.. but please do understand that i would wan you to know how i feel.. Go think about wat i've jus said.. It's time for you to grow up and think for yourself already.. people around you cant be there for you forever.. |
